Data shows us that quality feedback, given regularly improves employee engagement, reduces attrition and builds high performing teams.
So why do we shy away from delivering feedback if it is so important? Because the complexity of delivering feedback arises from the delicate balance between nurturing growth and the fear of potentially unsettling the dynamics, often leading to the challenge of finding the right words. Improving your feedback delivery starts by understanding 5 critical feedback ingredients so that you can deliver feedback that builds culture and drives results.
Psychologically Safe and delivered in a manner and location that is conducive to meeting the emotional needs of the recipient (e.g. not with implied threat and not in the hallway or in the middle of an open office environment). Ask permission before delivering feedback to ensure the recipient is in a head space to receive the feedback whether it is positive or negative.
Effective feedback requires empathy and understanding. Put yourself in the team member's shoes and try to understand their perspective and feelings. Practice active listening by giving the recipient your full attention and acknowledging their perspective. Create an open space for the recipient to respond, ask questions, or seek clarification. Be mindful of tone, delivering feedback in a calm, respectful, and non-confrontational tone. Pay attention to your non-verbal cues, such as body language and facial expressions, to ensure they convey a supportive and empathetic attitude.
Based on clear, observable, accurate, and credible information that leverage clear descriptive language. A simple, “good job” is not sufficient. Based on the feedback and the conversation that follows it, it should be clear what the individual should do next to stay on course or improve performance. Choose specific areas that are most important to the growth of the individual and their performance. Avoid providing too much feedback to action on at once.
Feedback should be focused on helping the team member to improve their performance, rather than simply criticizing or reprimanding them. Great feedback sets actionable goals and identifies resources, training, or mentoring opportunities to help individuals succeed in implementing the feedback.
Great feedback is delivered in a timeframe that both the deliverer of the feedback and the recipient can remember the situation and have a quality discussion about what happened. At the end of the feedback conversation, discuss what follow-ups and checks will be most supportive and constructive for them so as not to micromanage while also not leaving them on their own without support.
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